i think sex is an important part of life for most allosexual (not asexual) people and should be talked about and treated positively. i'm bisexual and extrasexual (basically a word for super horny). i am in favor of all consensual and informed sex practices, no matter how uncommon or "weird" they may be. i am pro-kink, pro-paraphilia, and sex positive. desire is healthy and normal. being attracted to someone is not objectification. fantasies are normal and hurt nobody. it's okay if sex is super important to you. i believe that the only "rule" that sexual expression should have is that it is consensual and informed (participants know of any potential risks and consented).